So maybe just for the hay of it and to generate some final blog posts before I fade away to the dark web, I'll send some notes out to the AM world each month over the next few and lets see what happens. I'll give you a little perspective, for what it worth, on what catches my eye.
To start out let's start with a note I've already written (as I'm usually writing about past events anyway).
PotomacDesires surprised me with an unsolicited note last month. No, a wink from a 30-something lady is nothing new; probably an on-line host. But she was "attached," didn't have a photo on her profile (bikinis on boats usually means host), was not ridiculously proportioned (e.g. not 5'10" and 110 pounds, again that typically means host or fishing), and actually had some feedback check marks that included the always important "better in person!"
Well I didn't think about it much at first, I'm in semi-retirement. But then wait! OMG, she has shared private photos! I click, hmmmm...., interesting. Shower image, a little cleavage, a little "cheeky" if you know what I mean but not overtly sexual. I've gotten those overtly sexual private photos before, very good indication of somebody fishing for video sex/chat. This seems plausible and overall a somewhat interesting profile though a bit brief. Humble, again nothing screaming "online host."
OH, and she had looked at my profile. Never write anyone who has not looked at your profile, even if they have winked or favorited, or sent you a big cherry gift. In fact if they do send you a gift don't write. No woman who actually wants to meet a man is going to send a "virtual" cherry to some 40's something random guy on a social network!
Anyway here is PotomacDesires:
PotomacDesires2016
Am I looking for you?
- Age: 33 (Aries)
- Location: **********, Maryland, United States
- Height: 5'4" (163cm)
- Weight: 140 lbs (64kg) - Average/medium
- Languages Spoken: English
- My Limits: Whatever Excites Me
- Status: Attached Female seeking Males
- Gender: Female
- Ethnicity: Caucasian (white)
- Smoking Habits: Never
Preferences and encounters I am open
to:
I'm looking for a guy who can bring
some spice into my life. Please be considerate and thoughtful if you wish to
contact me. Can't wait to meet you.
(0) gives good chat |
(1) pursues fantasies |
(0) worth the time |
(1) better in person |
(1) hot to trot |
(1) salacious |
(0) better over time |
(0) keeps promises |
(0) popular |
Well, I thought; what the heck, what's 5 credits among friends. So I drafted my first note in a LONG, Long, long, time......
Ms. Desire,
You have a very friendly face that I'd like to see in person! So you're looking for some spice in your life. Well, I'm a foodie and my favorite spices are saffron and rosemary. They are ever so slightly sweet and tangy. They add to food's natural flavors by enhancing and not dominating. They make food not only interesting but tantalizing from the moment you recognize the aroma. That is how I am. I like people for who they are. I like people to feel free to be themselves with me. Like saffron and rosemary I enhance and allow people to go where they desire and I enjoy that journey with them.
Care to add some spices together along a certain journey in our lovely area? Some wonderful spiceful adventures along that river between us! Perhaps a walk, perhaps a wine tasting, perhaps just being in the moment between the river's current and the mountains. And then......
Well, let's talk about that.
Hope you have a wonderful night Ms. Desire,
You have a very friendly face that I'd like to see in person! So you're looking for some spice in your life. Well, I'm a foodie and my favorite spices are saffron and rosemary. They are ever so slightly sweet and tangy. They add to food's natural flavors by enhancing and not dominating. They make food not only interesting but tantalizing from the moment you recognize the aroma. That is how I am. I like people for who they are. I like people to feel free to be themselves with me. Like saffron and rosemary I enhance and allow people to go where they desire and I enjoy that journey with them.
Care to add some spices together along a certain journey in our lovely area? Some wonderful spiceful adventures along that river between us! Perhaps a walk, perhaps a wine tasting, perhaps just being in the moment between the river's current and the mountains. And then......
Well, let's talk about that.
Hope you have a wonderful night Ms. Desire,
Eh, not so bad for being out of practice. Who knows?
As in the past any style critics are invited and appreciated! :)
Btw, were you interested in seeing my for-real AM profile? OK, here it is:
RYAN
Just to Satisfy You
- Age: 46 (Capricorn)
- Location: Somewhere Near the Potomac, United States
- Height: 6'0" (183cm)
- Weight: 185 lbs (84kg) - Fit
- Languages Spoken: English
- My Limits: Undecided
- Status: Attached Male seeking Females
- Gender: Male
- Ethnicity: Caucasian (white)
- Smoking Habits: Never
Preferences and encounters I am open to: edit
When I met you in the restaurant. I could tell you were no debutant.....
Just looking for someone who is cool and fun and we can be silly and slightly refined when absolutely necessary. But mostly just fun.
But I hope you won't see me in my ragged company. Because what we are all looking for is a magic kind of medicine that no doctor can prescribe.
And of course you will leave saying "some of your time is like one glass of water, it just keeps me thirsty for wine."
So lets not check boxes let's say shared passion and an opportunity to be completely "in the moment" with someone who is fascinating and shares joyous moments in a captivating alternative place just for us.
How about a bottle of red, a bottle of white. I'll meet you anytime you want in our Loudoun winery. Or perhaps take in the views at Great Falls or any other journey you wish!
Just looking for someone who is cool and fun and we can be silly and slightly refined when absolutely necessary. But mostly just fun.
But I hope you won't see me in my ragged company. Because what we are all looking for is a magic kind of medicine that no doctor can prescribe.
And of course you will leave saying "some of your time is like one glass of water, it just keeps me thirsty for wine."
So lets not check boxes let's say shared passion and an opportunity to be completely "in the moment" with someone who is fascinating and shares joyous moments in a captivating alternative place just for us.
How about a bottle of red, a bottle of white. I'll meet you anytime you want in our Loudoun winery. Or perhaps take in the views at Great Falls or any other journey you wish!
What really turns me on: edit
A Professional/Well Groomed, Stylish/Classy, Sense of Humor, Relaxed and Easy Going, Discretion/Secrecy, Casual/Social Drinker
Someone who inspires, enchants, enthralls, bewitches, and beguiles me and challenges me to be at my best.
I enjoy someone with a wide range of interests and I don't mind a challenging opinion.
I enjoy someone with a wide range of interests and I don't mind a challenging opinion.
What I'm looking for: edit
Travel,
Picnics, Fine Dining/Candle Lit Dinners, Cooking/Barbequing, Music
Lover, Politics, Watching Sports, Playing Sports, Physical Fitness, The
Outdoors/Nature, Romantic Walks, Wine Tasting, I Am a Social Drinker
I
enjoy hiking, biking, basketball, working out at the gym, swimming,
racquetball, and just about anything that keeps me active. I love
touring local vineyards and am a bit of a "foodie" so I enjoy fine
dining.
